In one dream - bright sunny day - she's smiling at me from where she stands in black (brown?) dress with white polka dots. In another she's looking at me and wearing a USC football helmet. (U of South Central, maybe?)
Other titles: Opposites
Hilary Barrett:
"Opposing' describes irreducible differences – desires, motivations and especially ways of seeing that diverge from one another. 'Opposing' people see differently even when they're looking at the same scene; they are utterly strange to each other, as if they came from different planets."
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